Lauryn Doll

I Hate When Dudes Ask, “What Do You Have to Offer?”

by Lauryn Doll on April 22, 2013

You know what grinds my gears?
When a man asks me “What do you have to offer?”

Here’s what I have to offer:

A big butt and a smile.

Personally, I feel like if I have to spell out what I have to offer, then we’re really not vibing to begin with. You will know what I have to offer by asking other questions and getting interested in how I think and how I move.

Looks? Yeah, I’m cute, but so is everyone else.
Sex? Yeah, but so does everyone else.

Me telling you that I cook, clean…? GTFOH — get a maid and a chef – that’s NOT what I have to offer.

“What do I have to offer?”

Momofuku are you giving me a job application?

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